How better to break the bond between parents and children than having parents fear their children? You should only love the Party; family love is dangerous. It’s the same with the removal of sex for pleasure, to eliminate love between a man and a woman and all other forms of love. If you love something more than the Party one might try move against the Party in favor of something they love personally. That is why the thought police are necessary to the Party, they remove unwanted love from the system. If you love something other than the Party you are pulled out and passed through the system ending up in room 101 where all love is destroyed and they ‘reprogram’ you in the correct image with proper love…. For the Party.